WHEN TRIED BY FIRE…TAME YOUR TURN-ONS!

Never does the human soul appear so strong as when it foregoes revenge and dares to forgive an injury.

-Edwin H Chapin

www.en.wikipedia.orgAre you troubled by something that happened at work in your past?

Are you enslaved and incapacitated by lingering thoughts of revulsion, touchiness, and animosity towards your boss or peers, bit by bit, literally bloating your head?

Why we all care so much about what other people think of us? Why their acuities have reflexively encompassed every facet of our being?

Just remember one thing, in corporate ecosphere, oppressive behaviour comes in all forms. Subjective vindication is much complex and pervasive sensation in otherwise cramped corporate power corridors.  At some point in our career, we all have inadvertently stumbled upon such caustic power-mines. Regrettably, it materializes more frequently as we climb up the ladder. 

Yet, whether we think about it consciously or not, one important question continues to stay alive beneath such experiences: How one should react to such methodically premeditated career assaults? Continue reading

Don’t Pay For Your Boss…!

“An appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile, hoping it will eat him last.”

-Winston Churchill 

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Last week at Jaipur, I was conducting a program on Cultural Transformation for the leadership team of a conservatively managed large Indian enterprise. Late evening at the terrace of that heritage resort, while atmosphere was festive and the air was curried with the aroma of local culinary, I was quietly staring out at the majesty of the dimly illuminated facade of the hypnotic Amber fort at far side of the road. Abruptly, one contemplative looking elderly participant startled me with an innocent question, “Sir, have you experienced a bad boss?” And I told him “Unfortunately not, but counselled many who have. Not just few skeletons, but entire gallimaufry of them.”

Let me ask you the same question, “Do you think you have ever experienced a bad boss in your career?” If yes, please join the club!

A lot has been written about the theme over the last couple of decades. What is clear with most of the  dissecting discussions in the literature is one: To be cautiously insightful in dealing with such a matter. I am sure there is a lot to be learned from all the works. But I have a radically diverse recommendation and if nothing else, I would want young professionals to learn to stand for their convictions. Continue reading

The Lord Action’s Pronouncement…!

The steps of power are often steps on sand

– Edward Counsel.

Have you ever watched a leader at your work place and wondered how his subordinates  could stomach an appalling leader like him?

You know the ones I’m talking about. The reality is though, we’ve all been there.

During my professional journey, I have advised and coached many young professionals who could not figure out how to effectively handle a power tripping superior.

The truth: Such leaders have put many careers in a deep hole…almost literally.

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The Self-Deception of Irrationality

A blinding influence that can intuitively incapacitate your effectiveness at work…

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Once upon a time, there was a brave king called….”

Picture a stretched sun-filled summer noon, in the leafy shadow of the portico of a placid hamlet-home on the corner of a small town in the west of India, a toddler innocently listening to the story…

When I look back at my growing years, I realize that my mother’s folk tales or father’s mythical heroic legends had a great influence over the shaping up of my life values.  How to be like our brave patriotic heroes, how one has to struggle hard to objectify the dreams, which behaviour to be side-stepped, and  many other pieces which are characterized ‘Good’ and ‘Normal’ in our daily life.  Whether I acknowledge it or not, my parents, teachers, and other family elders had a lasting and empowering influence over the final architecture of my humble native wisdom.

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